tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-843778778119050450.post2985261815025870302..comments2023-10-30T02:18:50.850-07:00Comments on the spitting vessel: What Women Wantdurano lawayan a.k.a. brad spithttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10432711769928256631noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-843778778119050450.post-26081059355330990092008-04-04T07:48:00.000-07:002008-04-04T07:48:00.000-07:00Hi Susan,So you agree with the witch like everyone...Hi Susan,<BR/><BR/>So you agree with the witch like everyone else? I believe it's a common feeling and actually true, especially in these times. A lot of men just don't behave like men and could hardly be counted upon. Most were raised as brats by their Mom's who doted on them and gave them all they wanted even before they could think of asking. That's because they could not dote on the husband who was being doted upon by another.:-)<BR/><BR/>The son grows up and expects to get the same treatment as his mom gave him, and leeway to enjoy himself.As he grows older, he develops into a useless bum his wife is trapped with. Now she wants control of her life.<BR/><BR/>I made a whole generational piece out of this haven't I? That's it,no more speculations. :-) --Durano, done!durano lawayan a.k.a. brad spithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10432711769928256631noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-843778778119050450.post-4143638184567392732008-04-04T07:42:00.000-07:002008-04-04T07:42:00.000-07:00Hi JC,It's not really a matter of purchases. If sh...Hi JC,<BR/><BR/>It's not really a matter of purchases. If she has control of her life, don't you think she will buy herself diamonds if she could afford to?<BR/><BR/>Diamonds and other things are minor compared to taking charge of the direction of their destiny. The danger is you may be left alone. :-) --Durano, done!durano lawayan a.k.a. brad spithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10432711769928256631noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-843778778119050450.post-58153059129417128202008-04-04T07:40:00.000-07:002008-04-04T07:40:00.000-07:00Hi Ange,I most certainly agree with your statement...Hi Ange,<BR/><BR/>I most certainly agree with your statements. Being in control of your emotions, you can control the behavior or emotions of others; then you have control of the situation and lead it to where you want it to go.<BR/><BR/>That is the empowering part. Losing your temper and showing that you lost it, makes you look unrestrained and less mature; and are least likely to control others, much less the situation.<BR/><BR/>But it's often nice to release these anger when I'm all by myself. LOL! :-) --Durano, done!durano lawayan a.k.a. brad spithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10432711769928256631noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-843778778119050450.post-10287251639367330842008-04-04T07:21:00.000-07:002008-04-04T07:21:00.000-07:00Very amusing and yet so rue. Give the women what ...Very amusing and yet so rue. Give the women what they want! ahahahaSusan Parrhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11603259169504866859noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-843778778119050450.post-28670966583774989922008-04-03T19:27:00.000-07:002008-04-03T19:27:00.000-07:00I always make the women decide and if my stomach c...I always make the women decide and if my stomach can take it, she gets her way.<BR/><BR/>I never make the mistake of asking them what they want. As a lawyer's rule in cross examination goes <I>"Don't ask any question if you don't know what the answer will be and can't benefit from it!"</I><BR/><BR/>Besides, I already know what my women want. And that one, I can't all the time afford. It's diamonds, geeky stuff and travel! -- all of those, i simply give them. Asking might result to a bigger stone and more expensive stuff. -- kidding, of course!:DAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-843778778119050450.post-41871780369456579172008-04-03T18:41:00.000-07:002008-04-03T18:41:00.000-07:00oops... sorry about that... I hit enter with only ...oops... sorry about that... I hit enter with only one word in the comment *blush*<BR/><BR/>You said:<BR/><BR/>"That's probably why God created man first. It was a rough draft before making the final copy.:-)"<BR/><BR/>Funny! God making a test model before making it right ;)<BR/><BR/>Great post btw... I think a woman gets ugly if she is full of insecurities. I really don't see the need to lash out and you know one of my biggest things is learning how to be emotionally intelligent. Before I started on my personal development journey, I could lash out at anything.. well almost anything! Learning how to be in control of your emotions and being able to change your state to be empowering rather than dis-empowering gives you more respect.<BR/><BR/>Have an awesome day!angesbizhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14852914069349493682noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-843778778119050450.post-85029544618596254982008-04-03T18:34:00.000-07:002008-04-03T18:34:00.000-07:00This comment has been removed by the author.angesbizhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14852914069349493682noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-843778778119050450.post-80356457199779979762008-04-03T01:00:00.000-07:002008-04-03T01:00:00.000-07:00Hi Zhu,Women become witches only when men become d...Hi Zhu,<BR/><BR/>Women become witches only when men become deceitful and unfaithful, I think. If this transpired after an initial failed relationship, woe to the man who comes next. But like most people, men or women, they can change. Sometimes a wrong person can give a false generalization and we have to remember to view people as individuals, not as sets or species.<BR/><BR/>I feel that women deserve equality and respect and should be given the right to take charge of their own life. A relationship requires a clarification by both parties of the kind of life they mutually agree to live and share.:-)--Durano, done!durano lawayan a.k.a. brad spithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10432711769928256631noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-843778778119050450.post-49998564755873731762008-04-03T00:47:00.000-07:002008-04-03T00:47:00.000-07:00HI Fitness Diva,Normally, people return an ugly wo...HI Fitness Diva,<BR/><BR/>Normally, people return an ugly word or deed with the same type and intensity as it was dished out. Some realize their mistake after such a reaction, at other times, they just reinforce or defend it with a more virulent one. And it never stops.<BR/><BR/>You are right about some men who either forget or really don't have any respect for women. That's probably why God created man first. It was a rough draft before making the final copy.:-) --Durano, done!durano lawayan a.k.a. brad spithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10432711769928256631noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-843778778119050450.post-38117829755660038332008-04-03T00:33:00.000-07:002008-04-03T00:33:00.000-07:00Hi Allan,Thanks. Experience is the best teacher, b...Hi Allan,<BR/><BR/>Thanks. Experience is the best teacher, but having to go through that process can be taxing. In my next life, I will make it a point to heed the advise of the elders that came before me. LOL!<BR/><BR/>I may not be me as I am today in my next life so I guess I will look for the blog site of Durano Lawayan and Allan Cockerill. :-)<BR/><BR/>I will get around to doing that bucket list and post it in your comment box. :-) --Durano, done!durano lawayan a.k.a. brad spithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10432711769928256631noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-843778778119050450.post-66535411477835582592008-04-02T18:24:00.000-07:002008-04-02T18:24:00.000-07:00Women can be like witches, can't deny it! So give ...Women can be like witches, can't deny it! So give us what we want :$ <BR/><BR/>Just noticed you added Google ads to your blog... good job! ;)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-843778778119050450.post-40192152717277910542008-04-02T07:40:00.000-07:002008-04-02T07:40:00.000-07:00Good one, Durano! With me, things only get ugly w...Good one, Durano! With me, things only get ugly when you are. In word or deed, of course! lol<BR/><BR/>Men sometimes forget that women want to be respected and considered just like they do. It's just a basic human want. <BR/><BR/>Great story!The Fitness Divahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07616336355234339736noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-843778778119050450.post-58871789573166198052008-04-02T02:17:00.000-07:002008-04-02T02:17:00.000-07:00Too right mate, yes indeedy!I must say (with the b...Too right mate, yes indeedy!<BR/><BR/>I must say (with the benefit of experience) that you have hit the nail on the head again...<BR/><BR/>Now, how about your Bucket List?<BR/><BR/>I'm sure that there are still thousands of things left that you want to do...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com